超级变变变！！

What has happened to everyone?

I just feel so dumbfounded and sad when truth starts to unfold itself in front of everyone, one by one. I think I do share the same feelings as Justin regarding the recent happenings, or perhaps I should call them bad news instead. It's only one year and the bpians I know are no longer the one I knew back in bp.

-- Extracted from Jia Wei's blog

Oh well, nevertheless weird changes have happened. Heh. People change lar.

I just go news long ago that a close friend totally changed. Haha i really mean totally. From head to toe, inside out! Yikes. I wonder if i can still connect with him after his drastic self change. Abit the scary la....haiz

Ooooo but i think i should start philoing abt this sudden change. Its quite obvious that all his friends are startled/shocked/dismayed. Haha, but WHY did he change????? Thats the nexus of the problem. I SHALL address it!

-- Extracted from Yen Shan's blog

I think change is good that is if change is for the better. but on the otehr hand you wouldnt really know if its for the better or for the worse till its tested and proven. but that doesnt mean that we re gonna put off change simply because we dont know the outcome. think its time for us to daringly embrace change because we'll never improve if we remain stagnant.

-- Extracted from Jun Quan's blog

的确，改变所带来的未知固然令人胆战心惊，因为事情总会有变得更糟糕的可能性。然而，我们就因为认知了有这个把事情变得更糟糕的可能性的存在，而否定了事情将变得更美好的可能性，那么我们将永远维持现状，人生永远不会得到进步。

维持现状（若是不错、美好的）固然好，但是何不尝试博一博，让生活更美好呢？

人生的乐趣，在于它的不确定。波兰女诗人辛波丝卡（Wislawa Szymborska）也曾写到：“这样的确定是美丽的，但变幻无常更为美丽。”（"Such certainty is beautiful, but uncertainly is more beautiful still")

诗句纵然是形容爱情，但我认为这番话也可延伸到人生。

没有变化，生命将会是多么的单调、枯燥、乏味啊！

即使你不喜欢对方的改变，你也无需惊慌。你不赞同他的现在，就让他去吧，别企图挽回他的从前。反正我们人与人之间是很难一直联系下去。总有一天他会离开你得生活，你也会离开他的世界。几米《地下铁》音乐剧也这么唱道：“生命它就是个月台，你来的目的就是要离开。”

反正到最终都不会长相厮守，都逃不过离别，那么何必在乎他的改变呢？