回响（二）

雨翔不知道因为距离而产生的美感与思念都是暂时的，都是源于一方不在身边的不习惯，一旦这种不习惯被习惯了，距离便会发挥其真正作用--疏远。所以由距离产生的美感就像流行歌曲磁带里的第一首主打歌，听完这首歌，后面就趋于平淡了。

--摘自韩寒的《三重门》

[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
hi...
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
let me explain the bbq thing
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
the invitation part, we didnt know who was going at all...
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
hantu just called me like that to ask if i was free
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
so beforehand we didnt know who was going...
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
but like on tue night, me and mw found out that u hadn't been invited...
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
we asked ry why, and he said hes ok with inviting u (we are too) but the organiser didnt want to invite u
Terence says:
ok thats enough
[ SuPeRsIzEfRiEs ] //:- Iowa, USA: Woman finds dead baby turtle in package of freeze-dried coffee > says:
im sorry for what happened... and i dont know anything about the sjab gathering becuz i was too busy worrying about my exam to find out anythin abt it... except that shengjia wasnt going anymore, so i assumed the whole thing was cancelled

我这辈子最不喜欢被忽略的感觉，我很八卦，很“鸡婆”，什么事情都想知道，都想参与。

但如果人家早已经习惯了我突然不出现在他的生活圈子的不习惯，那么我又能奈他如何？

总不能像白灵那样，不请自来，热脸去贴冷屁股，自讨没趣，自取其辱。

人的本性便是自相矛盾。之前一刻还说什么自己很感性，说什么要party, gathering, outing, BBQ，结果下一刻突然变得了很理性，什么都不要了，什么都取消了，态度立场的转换快得连四川的变脸师傅也自叹不如啊！

如果日本电视台还在举办《超级变变变》的比赛，冠军的荣耀与头衔想必是这群人的囊中物，十拿九稳的。

当然，为了顾及到这些人的面子，总得用一些杀伤力微薄的措辞来形容他们，其实言下之意，就是在痛批他们的虚伪做作。

就好像初院的评分制度一样，考得烂的人还分两种，一种叫"Sub-pass"，意思是他们差一点就能及格了，只不过因为某些不知名的因素在作怪，如果万字票和多多也能够采取这样的制度，让那些只差一个字，差点就赢了的赌徒也能获得奖金，多好；另一种叫"ungraded"，说穿了就是说他们不及格了，只不过为了不要打击学生们的自尊心，避免用"Fail", "失败"等字眼来label他们，只好得用一个这么“好听”的形容词来“形容”他们。说不定，还是因为这群人考得太烂了，烂到连批卷者也不想批改，不想打分，索性不批了，用一个“Ungraded"来带过。

其实，换个方式来看待这些问题，其实我还得感激他们，感谢他们为我这四年来的中学生涯画下了这么一个深刻，这么一个memorable的休止符，还真的让我毕生难忘。谢谢啦！

套句林志玲常（被要求）说的一句话：“我才不会忘记你们的！”